There are just some things you don’t do or say to a woman who is pregnant or has just given birth. Most of them are pretty basic, if you ask me. Don’t tell her she looks like she’s “ready to pop.” Don’t question why she’s formula-feeding instead of breastfeeding, or vice versa. And definitely don’t — under any circumstances — comment on the state of her pregnancy or postpartum body. In fact, just avoid all body talk whatsoever. Somewhere in the world right now, a clueless dude is learning that lesson the hard way, after giving his pregnant sister-in-law a book that he thought was harmless but wound up landing him in some hot water.